What should I do? Give in to my parents' unreasonable expectations or attempt to make it on my own?

hello, ok so your folks are religious and their job is to guide you to your future path not to control you, ask them both to sit down and remember when they where your age and if they like to be dictated to and to be told that they where going to be jewish there whole lives and that thier lives had been planned out due to the fact of their genders and ask them at that moment how did they feel . you know every teen rebels against their parents so if they say they just listened and did what they where told it would be untrue. tell them to be honest and to ask your mum while she is alone and then ask your dad while he is alone, remind them that it is 2010 and that there are no slaves in this country nor will there be in this family. tell them that god has come to you in your prayers and that he has chosen your future path and that they are there to guide you and support you ,and within time your parents will be proud that god has come to visit their daughter and has chosen her path. to go to college and learn whatever it is that you wish to pursue.tell your parents it is a test to see how jewish and athiests can except each other and live beside each other by communincating face to face with opinions.tell them to trust in you that the morals you have will stay with you forever and that they need to allow god to choose your future path now and only the person god asks to do things can hear god in their mind. think about it . and make your dream happen. otherwise you will become depressed and long for something and you will regret not going to college, if need be leave home but you will need to get at least 2-3 jobs to afford board and food.