Im gay but i have a strange .. need your advice.?

Nothing really strange going on: most like good hygiene and a few are into what you might call filth. Just about everyone appreciates "mansmells" which doesn't mean bad hygiene.....just that we want to smell him, not cologne or deodorant. I shower before a date but don't use deodorant cuz I like my pits munched. You can ask a partner to not use deodorant for that reason - or say you are allergic. Melding your bodies, odors & fluids is normal, not weird.